About six months ago, I shared our wedding budget with you. Jon and I would have loved to see how other couples broke down their wedding budgets as we dipped our toes into the planning process so that we had something to guide us, and I hope that our learning experience might be useful for some of you! (If you want to see more examples, A Practical Wedding has recently begun publishing some case studies at different price points and they do seem informative, though it's too late for us to start from scratch even if we wanted to.) As you'll see, we have made a few significant changes on our own through trial and error and good fortune since July...
The first change is that we expanded our guest list to a more inclusive number of friends and family; that's why the line for The Movable Feast has gone up. It's actually increased more than it appears above because the cheese table was incorporated into the catering back in July but we've since separated it out into its own item. We met with a wonderful baker, Michelle from Vanilla Patisserie, whose prices were a bit more than we had expected in part, I think, because I didn't understand what the options were outside of London. We found our amazing designer, Caroline, on Etsy - I've written about her here and here - and we decided to work only with Pink Orchid on all of our stationery and signage rather than counting that as miscellaneous decor and using other vendors, so the budget line for that has gone up, too. (Jon and my mother also reined in my decor fantasies, but that's a post for another time...) Tarah Coonan, our wonderful photographer, was one of the first vendors we booked, so that hasn't changed. Attire has increased because in September we chose JCrew gowns for Sarah and Ellie - so worth it!
Now for the biggest changes: a very generous family member has given us a phenomenal string quartet to play for our ceremony as a wedding gift, which totally shifted numbers around. We decided that, in the end, we don't actually need any more decor than we already have with the flowers (and everything else our incredible new florist is doing - you'll hear more about the happy disaster that led us to her in the spring) and the signage that Caroline is helping us with and the natural beauty of the barn at Bruisyard Hall. Somehow we had totally forgotten to factor the cost of our wedding rings into the budget - oops. And, finally, our cushion has decreased a little as we've moved money around.
I know this post is a bit dry, dear readers, and I'm sorry if this has bored you or made you uncomfortable, as talking about money often can! But budgeting is a crucial part of wedding planning and I'll be glad if even one couple finds this useful. And, as always, do let me know if you have suggestions on how to manage all of this! I do love my spreadsheets but I also get carried away on Pinterest, so I need all the help I can get!
