So, while Jon and I were researching our options for a wedding venue, we also did a basic search of other suppliers and vendors in the area. We put together a proposal for my parents, who are very generously paying for our celebration, that included a cost window; they then considered our research alongside their own financial capabilities and came back to us with a figure.
Because I am an Excel goddess, I decided the wise thing to do would be to make a supersophisticated budget spreadsheet. First, we again turned to the internet to see what, on average, couples spent on different aspects of their weddings. (Find some here: Real Simple, Martha Stewart, The Knot, and Wedding Wire; Wedding Chicks just posted an excellent infographic today about this.) I put those averages in the spreadsheet as percentages alongside our total budget and calculated the corresponding cost breakdown. Once I'd finished that in the abstract, I tweaked some of the percentages based on what we'd be spending on the pieces we knew we wanted - at this point, we had reserved Bruisyard Hall and we had figured out what a civil ceremony cost in the county, which changed the averages slightly.
As you can see, we're going to have to deal with an issue that most couples can't even imagine: planning a wedding in two currencies. Our budget is in dollars, but most of our money will be spent in pounds sterling. This is trickier than just doing consistent multiplication and/or division across the spreadsheet because of the fluctuating exchange rate, which means that what we have to spend in pounds sterling changes constantly.
Let's say my budget is $10,000. On July 12, I would have had £6,480.46 to spend. On July 19, it would have dropped to £6,362.51. That's a difference of £117.95 within a week. Yikes! What this means is that we're having to be more flexible than usual, I think, in saying "I want" about the smaller pieces of the wedding. The big pieces - like the venue and the catering and the photography - are non-negotiable, price-wise; we just have to hope that we pay off the balance of their fees when the exchange rate is favorable. But we're going to have to find other ways to prepare for unexpected changes in our budget. For instance, I have two ideas to talk through with potential florists: one that involves lots of flowers, if the exchange rate drops, and, if the exchange rate rises, one that involves strategic flowers but relies on other decorations to maximize their impact. It's certainly keeping us on our toes!
I'd love to hear if anyone else has planned a wedding in two currencies - and even if you haven't, I'm always open to financial tips or suggestions! This is a lot to keep a handle on, and we are grateful for all the help we can get.
