Wednesday, July 10, 2013

Wedding Wednesday: Belinda of Found Love, Now What?

I'll admit it: after I announced that I was going to start offering sponsorships here on Betsy Transatlantically, I got a little nervous.  What if no one wanted to join in?  The 5 hours and 42 minutes I waited from the moment I hit publish until Belinda's email landed in my inbox was excruciating - but when I read it, my heart sang!  I can think of no one better than the author of Found Love, Now What?, a blog about an American woman who fell in love with a man from across the ocean and settled in Wales with him, to launch this partnership.  Thank you so much for stopping by, Belinda, and for gracing my sidebar this month!  Read on, friends, for some of the lovely transatlantic traditions that she and her husband Neal incorporated into their wedding... and then make sure to check out her blog for more!


Why hello the lovely readers of Betsy Transatlantically! My name is Belinda and I blog over at Found Love. Now What? where I share the highs and lows of moving to Wales all in the name of love and adventure. I picked up my life in Seattle and moved 5,000 miles to Northern Wales last summer, and I have found my new British life nothing short of eye-opening!

When Betsy invited me to write a Wedding Wednesday post sharing Welsh traditions we incorporated in our May 2012 wedding, I immediately thought of one to share with you all: our wedding favor of Welsh Lovespoons.

Let me share with you a little bit about this lovely tradition, and how it made my heart happy that we could incorporate it in our 65+ guest wedding. Welsh lovespoons date back to the seventeeth century, and were originally given to a young woman by her suitor, to prove his skill in woodworking. Many times, the lovespoons were carved by sailors during long voyages, which is why many include anchors in the designs. Along with anchors, other carvings would be symbols for wishes and hopes for the future: horeshoe (luck), bells (marriage), hearts (love) , lock (security) and wheels (support of a loved one). {Lovespoon history courtesy of Wikipedia.}

Not only did the meaning and origin of the lovespoons, tug at my heartstrings but it was also the first gift Neal gave me in our long distance relationship. {Swoon, right?} When we began thinking of what favors we wanted at the wedding, we knew that love spoons were the perfect solution. It shared a bit of our history as a couple, incorporated Welsh culture and was more substantial than Jordan almonds. {You get what I mean, right?} We selected lovespoons with a carved heart, bell and knot symbolizing love, weddings and everlasting love respectively. Attached to each lovespoon was a little card explaining the historical significance, and inviting our guests to hang the small momento in their home to remember our wedding day. We greeted guests from cocktail hour, and gave each household their lovespoon personally with a greeting and a hug. {Think of a very informal receiving line with just the who of us.}

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Since the venue had a separate room for a bar, we wanted to give it a fun and authentic pub feel. Along with the lovespoons, Neal brought over bunting, flags and even coasters from the UK to decorate our bar area.

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And since we used the American and British flags in our engagement session {left}, I wanted to make sure that were able to get at least one lovely pic with us sporting some home country pride. This was the last picture our photographer took that night, and I couldn't be more happy about it.

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My advice for any wedding planning bride when thinking about wedding favors is to think of a momento that has meaning to you both as a couple, and reflects a bit of your story!

Feel free to pop over to my blog, Found Love. Now What?, to see more about our wedding last spring plus read about my musings on expat life and travels throughout Europe. I look forward to meeting you!

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19 comments:

  1. This is such a lovely guest post! After reading so many great ideas from Betsy on incorporating different traditions, it's nice to hear how someone else did it. I especially love the engagement/wedding photos with the flags!

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  2. How cool! Those love spoons are a great tradition and a meaningful favor for your guests to remember the day.

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  3. Lovespoons! My partner's extended family is Welsh, and I vividly remember meeting them for the first time and going in their homes and seeing their lovespoon on the wall; carved for their own wedding over 30 years ago! We brought back a lovespoon for my parents, and when we gave it to them, they said they also had one from their early years of marriage in the UK too! Love this curiosity of Welsh culture, and love your blog, Belinda!

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  4. What a great guest post! I love the intertwining of your story and the overall story of the lovespoon - a wonderful and meaningful guest favor!

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  5. I've never heard of lovespoons before, but they're gorgeous! And I love the story behind them!

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  6. I love this! Those spoons are gorgeous!

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  7. Thanks Belle! I was so thrilled with the results of who the photos turned out! =)

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  8. That's what we were hoping for Alicia, something that our guests could keep as a real momento a story to go along with it!

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  9. I bet if you went to two neighboring villages in the UK, you'd find completely different traditions in each!

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  10. oh that is SO lovely! it's such a sweet thing to be able to pass down, too :)

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  11. (I'm trying to convince Belinda to send me one of the extras...)

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  12. What a sweet story! And an excellent fit of sponsorship! :)

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  13. E-mail me your address Betsy! Maybe you can send me some DC goodies! ;-)

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  14. Love this post, and the spoons! My boyfriend and his family are Welsh and I would definitely want some Welsh traditions brought into our wedding. I love the Welsh flag!

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  15. I loved this post!
    And I like the spoons and Welsh traditions which were incorporated!

    Looking forward to reading more about the wedding when I hop on over there round about...now.

    Nicola x
    Photograph each day so we can live forever...

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  16. I can't imagine a better fit for your first sponsor! I love incorporating cultural traditions in weddings. Such a cute idea!

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