morning cuddle time; February 2013
I sing to Charlie. Like, a lot. You'll get more on this next week when I tell you about Charlie's birthday, but this is probably as good a place as any to give you some examples. Our favorites are "You Are So Beautiful" and the Moulin Rouge version of "Your Song" but we also really like "I Got You Babe" and "I'm A Believer." Yes, he sometimes sings along, and yes, these are all love songs. Don't judge us.
The idea of having someone do my wedding make-up is making me anxious. I mean, I don't know how to do it myself so that it'll last for 8 hours and look great for photos and I know it's best to find someone to do it who does, but my routine is pretty basic. Remember this post? I can count on one hand the number of times I've worn eyeshadow in the past two years. Maybe I should start ramping it up gradually now so that it won't be a shock to my system when the make-up artist tells me that she can keep it natural but really does need to use more than just Chapstick. Also, I should learn from Lindsay's experience and make sure that everyone knows I don't want anything drastic before any product touches my face.
That being said, I would love to have someone properly apply false eyelashes for me for special occasions. They looked amazing the first time I ever tried to do it myself, and it hasn't worked since. (I used Eyelure; any screw-ups were mine and not the fault of the product or the brand!)
I love country music. I love America. I love the fact that we have the freedom to worship any religion we want here. But when the DC-area country music station, WMZQ, plays the National Anthem at noon every day, I change the channel, and I change the channel if they play two songs in a row that include references to Jesus. It might not be rational, it does really annoy me that this genre seems to think it has a monopoly on patriotism and faith. (See: the whole debacle with the Dixie Chicks back in 2003. Also Ghetto Superstar, even though that's not country.)
The reason I drink black unsweetened coffee is because that's how my mom drinks hers. When I was a child, Mom would make the coffee right after waking up and then leave her mug on the counter in the bathroom just by the door while she showered; I'd sneak in and steal sips because I wanted to feel grown-up. Ever since, I've associated black unsweetened coffee with being an adult, and that's what I drink in the morning on work days. On weekends, though, I have half the cup of coffee and then use the rest to make a mocha!
Speaking of showers, I hate the idea of them. I will do anything to put off taking a shower. But it's heaven once I'm in and I'll do anything to put off getting out. Conversely, I love the idea of baths. I build them up in my head and go to town making them as luxurious as I possibly can - bubbles, candles, tea, magazines, the whole nine yards. And then I'm bored after ten minutes in the water. Can't win!
How about you, dear readers - what are your quirks? I hope we can still be friends now that you know some of mine... and be sure to check out the comments in Megan's post to see the others that have been shared!
I have the exact same thing with showers... I think it's an avoidance of anything that might make me a little cold really, like getting in or getting out. Also, when I got married, I wore almost zero makeup regularly, so it felt weird to get it done for my wedding - but you do want it done for the photos! Also for when you're standing up in front of a bunch of people. It's like needing a bit of extra makeup to be on stage... Bonus that since I rarely wore makeup, it made me feel extra fancy for a big day.
ReplyDeleteI'm going to make a Jewish country music group. WHO'S WITH ME? hehe :)
ReplyDeleteI don't wear a lot of makeup either but you definitely want to be a little more glamorous on your wedding day! One tip, if you haven't found a makeup artist, is to do airbrush makeup. It's so flawless and natural and looks perfect in photos. Another tip is to either go with darker eyes or darker lips, not both. I did darker eyes (not even close to smoky, but in the browns and greys category) and a really soft pink lip. Let me know if you want to see some of my pics if you do decide to go with airbrushing! I highly recommend it! :)
ReplyDeleteooh I'd love to see if you don't mind! a complicating factor is what's available out there, but it'll help if I know what to ask about :)
ReplyDeleteI'll email you a few makeup pics now :)
ReplyDeleteI am neither Jewish nor country but I'M IN!
ReplyDeleteFunny enough I'm also SUPER anxious about someone doing my wedding make-up - my skin is this funny color and whenever anyone else tries to put foundation or eye shadow on top of it I always look a funny orange colour. It will take an absolute genius to get it right. And... I also love my coffee black, sometimes I add a bit of milk, but never any sugar or creamer.
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I just love what you said about country music. It's never that I'm against their patriotism - it just always frustrates me that they believe I'm *not* patriotic because I don't do it the same way.
ReplyDeleteI'm also in the same exact boat with baths. I get so excited for them and then I'm bored senseless, left wondering "but did I do this wrong??"
Ahhh I HATE that song about being Made in America. Because it is just SO DANG CATCHY, but not everybody subscribes to 'King James and Uncle Sam', TOBY KEITH. I find myself hate-listening to it a lot.
ReplyDeleteAlso baths are boring, showers are wonderful, and singing to your dog is completely normal.
I also drink black unsweetened coffee during the week. I'll have a cappuccino on a Friday morning sometimes as a treat but I do prefer the taste of (good) black coffee. My dad drank it black and I grew up associating it with adulthood as well.
ReplyDeleteHaha! I'm with you on doing anything to avoid showers. Whatever you're doing at the time is so much more interesting! My husband recently bought me a shower radio so that I can listen to my audiobooks...it's kind of amazing, and has totally worked in terms of making me excited to get clean.
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I've never heard that expression - love it! Jon's "favorite" country song, which was on the radio the first time he came to visit me, is Toby's American Ride. His favorite line: Plasma gettin' bigger / Jesus gettin' smaller..
ReplyDeleteexactly! and that was the Dixie Chicks issue. there isn't one right way to love your country or God. but I guess it's easier to build a brand around saying there is?
ReplyDeletehaha YES I always feel like there's one thing that I don't have or don't do that will make my bath amazing. glad I'm not alone :)
Haha!! I love these. Especially your shower/bath uncertainty. That's so cute. I might have to do one of these posts next week! xoxo
ReplyDeleteOh my gosh, I sing to my dog too. I typically make up songs that include his name. My husband is used to it and just ignores it. However, one time I was singing a mash-up of Ryan Adam's "Oh My Sweet Carolina" (with Carolina changed to Oliver) and Sinead O'Connor's "Nothing Compares to You" and our friend and neighbor had come in to talk to Ben without me knowing and was cracking up. It was super embarrassing. He still brings it up. My dog likes it though.
ReplyDeletethat is true - I only get made up for special occasions, and this definitely qualifies!
ReplyDeleteOooh! Oooh! I can give you some false lashes pointers! I've worn those for theatre and show choir since I was 13. I was the designated eyelash girl for everyone. Haha!
ReplyDeletehaha, that's adorable that you used to sneak sips of your mother's coffee! I feel the same way about showers. They always seem like a waste of time, but then I get in and I forget that I didn't want to shower in the first place.
ReplyDeletedisplays of religion in pretty much any other medium tend to bother me, but for whatever reason country music usually doesn't. I guess because music is a very personal form of expression? and I regard religion as being very personal so it fits? I don't know. it doesn't make sense, seeing as I'm really uncomfortable with people splashing their religion all over the place (which makes living in Alabama fun!).
ReplyDeleteI will totally admit that it's not rational on my part! but while I do think that music is personal, the conservative Christian side of country music seems like a brand decision, so... I don't know :/
ReplyDeletehehe we do that too! that's how Charlie gets the strangest names - we sing the normal nicknames and then they distort themselves into totally weird other things. love it :)
ReplyDeleteso funny how we're shaped by these things!
ReplyDeleteI am the same way with country music, and I was so relieved to read what you wrote haha I felt like I was all wrong in my thinking! Phew! :) And goodness gracious, if singing to your dogs is wrong, then I don't wanna be right. I have 4 dogs, and each has no less than five nicknames each, and I make up songs about them and sing them to them all. the. time. Plus I'll sing "Happy Birthday" to them all year long cause it's the one song they're guaranteed to sing along with me!
ReplyDeletesometimes I'm convinced we share a mind. this post it comes out with thoughts on country music and showers. seriously, I hate the idea of getting into the shower but once I'm there? fantastic. so yes, let's still being friends please
ReplyDeleteI'm the same with baths and showers. In fact, I think my showers quite often last longer than my baths. My sister will soak in the tub for hours but within minutes I get all fidgety. What a waste!
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Ugh - my fingers swell like crazy too! Mostly when it's hot, but it can also be from being dehydrated (hungover), or even just from walking around too much! I'm going to have to take the wedding rings off the second I find out I'm pregnant.
ReplyDeleteAs far as the wedding makeup goes, have you considered eyelash extensions? I think I'm posting about mine tomorrow (or next week), but I looooved them! And, when I got my trial makeup done, at first I was all "whoa there, makeup!" but people assured me it looked great and would look awesome in pics - which it did.
And, one more thing - I also hating getting in the shower. Once I"m there it's great, but I think if it was up to me, I'd shower like once a week. This is something Justin just does NOT understand.
The wedding makeup secret that worked for me was primer! I'd rarely used it before, but I did my own makeup on our wedding day, and loved how it turned out. Even in the 97 degree weather, my make up did not slide off once. After we danced in the rain, I did a little blush touch up because I'm obsessed with that stuff, but you should look into using primer :)
ReplyDeleteAnd yes, ugh showers. They're so much work! But then I get in there and take like 30 minute showers, so obviously I don't hate them that much.
I think the Christian side of country is just because so many country dwellers that love that genre (and make up the majority of the artists) were raised in that faith. We love Jesus, our mamas, and country music. But I totally understand being frustrated that so many songs are about being a Christian if you're not yourself. It's the only genre that really references any faith, which I understand would be frustrating if you don't believe the same thing. And our station plays the National Anthem at noon every day too and I just switch it cause it annoys me. I can hear that at baseball games; I don't need it on the radio every day.
YES WE DO YAY! I'm still smiling about your post - thank you :)
ReplyDeleteI got really into finding Charlie's favorite Christmas song back in December. we must have gone through, like, 50. my poor family...
ReplyDeleteso thinking about this more... I think there are two kinds of Christian country music. in the first, the songs are overtly about faith (like "Jesus Take The Wheel" and "If I Could Have a Beer With Jesus"). and in those cases, my discomfort is generally more about ME than it is about the people writing the songs, because that's what they believe and so why shouldn't they be able to sing about it? but in the second, being Christian goes hand in hand with loving America and liking country music (like in "Southern Comfort Zone"). and I feel like that is a bit more aggressive from them, you know? hm.
ReplyDeleteoh man I hadn't even considered pregnancy. yikes.
ReplyDeletebut I'd love to hear about your extensions! I'd thought about long-term fakes - is that what they're called, the ones that last like two weeks? - but wasn't sure I wanted to spend the money. so many options!
Well, mine are still hanging in there at 6 weeks, so not sure if it's the same?? I mean, they have diminished, for sure, but some are sticking it out! I'll post the 6 week progression tomorrow. And yeah, they were expensive, but I just kept my eyes out for a coupon and jumped on it when it came along!
ReplyDeleteMan, Charlie is lucky! Those are only like the best songs. One quirk of mine is that I eat soy sauce on my cheerios instead of milk sometimes.
ReplyDeletei so hear you on the shower thing!! thats why i fell in love with dry shampoo. and if only i had a bathtub here i have a feeling it would become somewhat of a habit to take a nice relaxing bath with lots of bubbles and some red wine :)
ReplyDeleteI have Raynaud's too! It's not like this exciting news or anything, but since you do, I thought I'd share.
ReplyDeletehaha thank you :) apparently there are a lot of us? mine's not that bad, but my mother's can be almost incapacitating :(
ReplyDeletethat definitely counts as a quirk :) a girl I used to babysit would pour OJ in her cereal instead of milk.
ReplyDeleteOh that's horrible! Mine only gets really bad if it's really cold out, or sometimes, in the frozen food section of the grocery store, which is never fun. Roll on summer!
ReplyDeleteHave a great weekend Betsy! x
Jesus Himself basically preached that we should love one another, care about others, not steal, not be dishonest, etc. I think religious people are the ones who have twisted this basic message around and use the Bible's words for their own personal agendas. I don't believe that Jesus really wants people to be murdered because they are gay or alienated because their spouse is a difference race.
ReplyDeleteI also like black coffee!
A weird quirk of mine is that (1) when I do have a soda, which is rare, I want it out of a can OR in a cup of with crushed ice. Don't ask why, but I do think that a can or crushed ice makes a difference.
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I think everyone interprets the bible (and other sacred texts) in his or her own way - we get into trouble when some people decide that their interpretation is the only correct one!
ReplyDeleteI'm not a soda girl either :)
Yeah, I can see where you're coming from. It just seems so integrated to me, but it does get obnoxious sometimes.
ReplyDeleteSome people might think this is really gross, but I probably take baths 70% of the time. It all goes back to when I was growing up. I lived in a very old house that didn't have a shower. I only take a shower when I have to wash my hair!
ReplyDeleteI love your quirks. I'm so glad we're friends!
when reading this i too began to wonder if i had any notable quirks and after some thought i believe i do. I am part human and part robot which can really be a drag. Sometimes picking up cheese with my pneumatic claw can be a major hazard as i often cut the table in half. I have now gone through at least seven tables which is really saying something since i used to be a table salesperson at DFS. I have been a cyborg for at least 9 years although the digital clock in my brain broke in the year the 2000 due to the millennium bug which was a real set back if you know what i mean. Hahaha lol rofl Mao Zedong XOXOXO. 00011100101111!!!. Anyway moving on this whole area used to be orange groves as far as the eye can see and that is all i have to say about that....... So he said picking the last ear of corn out of the steamy bowl, in time her death will even be a mystery to me! Perhaps one day i will know what my other six quirks are, but you will just have wait for them to be revealed and maybe you can get to grips with my other pneumatic parts! xxxxxx 1111011101110101
ReplyDeleteI hate the idea of showers too. I think just because it's a huge time-suck for me. I have thick hair that takes ages to shampoo and condition. Then my post-shower moisturizing routine takes forever because my skin is so dry. I enjoy the actual shower and post-shower routine... Just not when I have things to do and places to be!
ReplyDeleteBaths, on the other hand, I love entirely. They're so relaxing when I'm sore after a long day on my feet at JCP. Add a book and a glass of wine... Heaven. (Or, a little TMI here, prop up my laptop on the toilet and skype with my boyfriend from the bath...)
I'm with you on the post-shower routine... it can be so luxurious!
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