Wednesday, January 30, 2013

Wedding Wednesday: The Boys

Along with Sarah and Ellie, my Maid of Honor and my bridesmaid, Jon and I are beyond honored that two of his best friends will be standing beside us when we get married. They're not comfortable with the idea of being broadcast on this blog so I won't disrespect them by sharing much here, but I will say that I'm delighted to count them both as my friends as well as Jon's. And since I can't talk about Jon's best men - they're sharing the role - I'll take advantage of the opportunity to explain why asking them to participate in our wedding is another example of why my fiancé is such a great guy!

Of course Jon has close friends from high school and college; I think that everyone sort of sheds the periphery of acquaintances from those years after graduation and strengthens a smaller number of real relationships. But Jon's true core of friends, including these two boys, are those he met when he started school - mates he has known since he was a young child. They all grew up together and have stayed in touch through the years, despite being scattered across the country (and sometimes the world) at different secondary schools, universities, and jobs. It was truly wonderful to be welcomed into this gang with open arms when Jon and I got serious, and it's a huge testament to their loyalty and love for each other that they're so dedicated to being a part of each friend's happiness even across the years and the miles.

To you, boys - thank you from the bottom of my heart!


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12 comments:

  1. ohh this is so lovely :) x

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  2. This is lovely! I am loving learning about all different bits of your wedding - so exciting :)

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  3. I tell you, it was HARD not to share more about them!

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  4. I bet it was tough to not dive in and share more about them - but I'm so excited for you! It took us a long time to figure out which guys would stand up with us at the wedding. :) xo, eliza

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  5. you have no idea! when Jon first asked me to take out their names, I was like EXCUSE ME? but they deserve the privacy that makes them comfortable, so :)

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  6. I always say that you know who your true friends are after you graduate and see who actually stays in touch. The fact that he has such great friends that he's known for so long really says a lot about how close they are! I'm glad that you both get to have such special people there on your wedding day. I promise it'll make it all that much more special.


    Thanks again for linking up Betsy! xoxo

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  7. I know - it really makes me love him more :) thanks for hosting, Joelle!

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  8. so cute! we still talk to lots of our college and high school friends! I love it! And, they were just in our wedding in decemeber!
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  9. that's when you know the friendship is fo' realz :)

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  10. Rob's the same way, his friends and him have grown up together. I've always been so jealous of that, they have lifetimes of memories! That's a special bond to be let into too :)

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  11. they do - and we'll join to make even more :)

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