Friday, September 30, 2011

Frock Fridays

We have recently launched a new season of work both on our main stage and in our studio at my theatre and, on top of that, my boss is very enthusiastic about cultivating prospective donors through entertaining, so I find that we are regularly scheduling an evening event a week.  I do need some new dresses to take me from office mode to hostess mode, but I've unfortunately been living a bit beyond my means for the past few months.  (It's nothing to worry about, though I do need to adjust my attitude towards spending.  I'm working on it!  I think I'll try to do a new updated Cost of Living in London post soon.)

Enter Marks & Spencer.   They consistently have decent clothing at affordable prices; you're not going to head to M&S if you need something on the cutting-edge of fashion, but they do nod to trends in their collections and it's definitely possible to walk out of their stores with a bag full of flattering clothes.  Even if you don't look like Rosie Huntington-Whiteley and/or have Ryan Reynolds on your arm...


Today's Frock Fridays is therefore dedicated to Marks & Spencer and the dresses that will seamlessly deliver me from the boardroom to the bar - each for less than £50.



Thursday, September 29, 2011

Topsy-Turvy, Seasonally

Oh my stars and whiskers, dear readers.  What the [expletive] is going on?  It's late September.  It's officially autumn.  In addition to that, Londoners haven't taken their coats off since 2010.  And yet, at 3:38pm today, Google told me that:


Holy moley.  I mean, holy [expletive] moley.

I could get used to this except that I had finally reconciled myself to not having a proper summer this year and now I'm all upside-down.

As I took today off work, I spent most of the afternoon in the garden playing with Violet, the youngest child of my landlord family, which was delightful.  I'm currently now babysitting for Violet and her brothers - we worked out a deal soon after I moved in by which my rent was decreased by x per month in exchange for a few nights of childminding a month.  The kids were put to bed almost an hour ago and I can still hear the boys chattering away in their bunkbed, but I'm feeling generous so I'll give them a few more minutes before I tell them that, really, they need to stop talking because they're making so much noise that they're going to keep themselves awake.  (I'm pretty sure that Samuel, the oldest at 7, doesn't entirely believe me when I say this; he looked at me quizzically the last time I had to go up to give a variation on this theme as if to say, "That's possible, but let me test out your theory.")

Anyway, the point is that I'm totally confused by this glorious Indian summer we're having.  Because I'm so in the zone with autumn at the moment, I've gone a bit woozy over chunky soups and meaty stews and hearty sauces.  My Le Creuset dutch oven seems to live either on the hob or on the drying rack these days.  I stopped at Borough Market on my way home after lunch aujourd'hui just to see what new nommy noms have come into season since I last visited - the supermarkets lie about this, you know; my big local Sainsbury's still somehow chemically has broad/fava beans in the vegetable aisle - and I really should have stocked up on the last of the tomatoes and sweetcorn and other agricultural things that would have helped me celebrate the sun and heat.  However, this little voice in my ear said, as I walked past The Ginger Pig's stall, "Hey, look, rabbits!  They're only £5 each, you know.  It really would be throwing away money if you didn't buy one."

totally inappropriate, but I've had What's Opera, Doc? stuck in my head for hours

So I find myself with a rabbit stew bubbling away on the stove.  I used this recipe, which I first experimented with just over a year ago, except that I skipped the chorizo and celery and added mushrooms.  I'm going to treat it as a fancy-schmancy bolognaise and ladle it over tagliatelle.  And, just like that, we're seasonally appropriate again!  At least, until I wake up to tomorrow's scorcher...

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Rosh Hashanah

L'Shana Tova, everyone!  May you have a sweet new year filled with joy and blessings.


(In fact, my boss and I do attend the same synagogue...)

Monday, September 26, 2011

Judging Books By Covers

Dear readers, you know I love style.  You know I love design and decor and dresses and pretty things and when these are all put together in one glorious image I generally get verklempt.  And so, as a result, although I sort of absolutely really dislike the concept of lifestyle blogs because I have a hard time with the idea of being one of those girls who lives a lifestyle (you know what/who I mean, don't you?), I will admit that I have tons o' them bookmarked on my beleaguered MacBook and I check them every five minutes for updates.  Yes, it is true, I do.


But.  (Aha, you knew that there was a "but" coming, you canny thing, you.)   I eagerly glean inspiration from the amazingly creative photoshoots that populate these blogs; it's great to see that painting the wall behind a white bookshelf can make the art displayed therein really pop, that a chandelier in the bedroom can add instant glamour, and that empty picture frames hung on a wall can be elegant in and of themselves.  At the same time, though, I find myself resenting the highly stylized rooms that are featured in online shelter magazines like Lonny and Rue.  People just don't actually live as is presented in these photos!  They're so incredibly conceptualized - to be honest, they make me uncomfortable.  For example: who the hell covers all of their books in brown wrapping paper to preserve the palette of white and beige?


These photos bring out the cynic in me, and I can't help but think of Catalogue Living.

In a recent New York Times article about judging people by their bookshelves and houses, Dr. Sam Gosling, a professor of psychology, says, "Places reflect long series of behavior... Your books, your chairs, your wall hangings represent an accumulation over many years.  A space distills repeated acts.  That's why it's hard to fake."  I think that this is part of the reason why the stylized rooms featured in these blogs and online magazines give me the heebie-jeebies; they've been so carefully crafted that you can't actually tell who lives there.  They present an image of who might live there, but it's not sincerely a real person.  Instead, it's a conceptualized version of how the person living there wants to be regarded.  It's a construct.

Please don't misunderstand me.  As I said, I pour over these websites and I make notes about what I like and what doesn't suit my taste so that I will be prepared when I have the money and the space to go wild.    However, I really think that there's something to be said for a bit of life in these images that isn't manufactured specifically for a photoshoot.  I'd love to see the personalities of the homeowners bursting through the screen, but I'm afraid that this kind of abandon simply isn't in vogue right now.  I don't know - what do you think?

Monday Laugh

I am so behind the boat* on this one as the Emmys were presented back on the 18th, but I didn't catch the show then and have only just now seen the opening on YouTube.  I adore Jane Lynch and the musical number is fab from beginning to end; my favorite bit, of course, is the Mad Men riff:


Thank goodness Glee has started up again!  I need Sue Sylvester in my life.  Now, when do I get Don Draper back?  The countdown is on.

*I'm pretty sure that I've horrendously mixed metaphors here, but you all know what I mean.

Friday, September 23, 2011

Frock Fridays

I left the office early today because I have to reconcile a spreadsheet with a report (so very Office Space of me) and every time I start the project at my desk I get interrupted so my boss said I could work on it from home.  I'm now sitting in my garden; it's a gorgeous autumn afternoon here in London and, having been accompanied on my bus home by boisterous schoolgirls in pleated skirts and blazers, I'm dreaming of back-to-school fashion in soft wool and buttery leather...

Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Further Afield

I owe a big thank-you and an even bigger apology to Danielle for writing such a wonderful guest post for my blog; obviously, it was supposed to be published during my trip abroad but then my holiday became abbreviated and, essentially, I failed at being a good blog friend.  Danielle, thank you for your patience - your time has arrived!  (AT over at Jumped the Pond wrote a guest post for me, too, and has shared it over on her blog.  Make sure you check it out!)  Since you're here reading this, I'm going to blatantly take advantage of the fact that I have you spellbound (insert evil laugh here) and also point you to this article from the New York Times about women traveling alone as well as my friend Kate's response to it.

You'll see how relevant the Frugal Traveler article is when you read on to the last post in this guest blogging series...



Ode to Single Lady Travel

One of my favorite things in life is, controversially, solo travel.  It's divisive to be sure, the idea of exploring and uncovering the wider world on one's own, but is also absolutely rewarding. Spending time alone in a new place naturally leads to discovery not only of a new place but also of the self.

I'm not single and I often don't travel alone: readers of Bloody Brilliant will know that The Irishman and I travel together on nearly all trips besides those for work (and last year, I even accompanied him when he went to Madrid for a conference). But I made it really clear to him early on in our relationship that I sometimes prefer to go off on my own to a new place and that he will just have to deal with it. And he does. At first he wasn't sure why I would want to fly off somewhere without him, but he's always respected my wishes and now even sort of gets it. So I've spent long weekends in Amsterdam and Paris on my own since we've together, both visiting friends and all on my own, and I wouldn't be adverse to going to the countryside on my own either.

Why do I enjoy traveling alone so much? Besides the delight of self-discovery, there is a warm feeling selfishness that you can't quite get from spending time in your home. Yes, hanging out at home with all of your stuff is comfortable and reassuring, but so is staying in a luxurious boutique hotel (single rooms are cheaper than doubles!) with only a few items and a whole weekend wide open for you to fill as you wish. You can sleep in if you want (or not if you're a morning person) and there is no one with you making you compromise about when you set off for a day of exploring. If you want to have cake for breakfast in a decadent cafĂ©, no one will stop you. Who cares if waiters raise an eyebow? YOU'RE ON VACATION. And how you spend your time is yours. Museums? Art galleries? Shopping? Spa day? Hikes? Swimming? Tracking down long lost ancestors? Whatever you want to do, you can – there are no rules beyond the ones you make for yourself. On our recent trip to Paris, I made a stark realization: Paris is not for lovers, it's for ladies. The most wonderful things to do there are eat macaroons, fondle shoes, and ogle at shop windows. Boys don't like to do those things. They like to eat large amounts of steak frites, and make girls feel guilty for doing those things. So my next trip to Paris will be for the soldes in February, ALONE.


But seriously. Travel with friends and lovers is exciting as you share new experiences or see wonderful things together. But there is something special about having the time and space on one's own to think and be and exist in a different place. It's not easy; the worst part is probably evening meals. That is when you see all of the inhabitants of a place out and about, dining with their partners and friends, and you're the person on her own in the corner – possibly with a book. Even these situations, though, are easily overcome and mastered; savoring each bite, people watching, treating yourself to a nice glass of wine (or 3)... all of these make a solo meal an experience rather than "passing the time". Cities and villages alike have pubs where you can be by yourself for an evening, and before you know it it's midnight and you're exhausted from the excitement of your day.

I understand that safety can be a concern for a lady traveling on her own, but let common sense guide you and you'll be fine. Traveling alone in cities is easier, as there are always people around. Out in the country, staying in B&Bs where the owners are always there can give an added sense of security as well as always making sure your phone is charged and available. I suppose I never worry about it, though, as living in a city conditions you to having street smarts no matter where you are in the world.

And after three or four days of escapism in another world, it's so so lovely to come home. Whether you're single or partnered up, returning to your home after solo travels is one of the best parts. Your stuff is there. You are there. Sitting wrapped up on your sofa with a cup of tea, the best souvenir is a warm glow of satisfaction that envelopes you as you think about everything you did, by yourself, for yourself, and the memories that will be yours to cherish always.

Tuesday, September 20, 2011

An Ode to Socialized Medicine

Jon and I had quite an adventure on Sunday night and, as a result, I don't really mind anymore that 20% of my paycheck is taken by the UK government in taxes.  That's right, ladies and gentlemen: we spent from 9pm to 3am in A&E.

I know you're now worried about me; don't be.  I'm fine.  In the end, the doctor determined that I had a migraine which, it turns out, is a normal part of the human condition and not, in fact, the end of the world.  The thing is, though, that I'd never had a migraine before and I had no idea what was happening.  It was a very scary experience - one that I hope to never repeat.

Newham General is, late at night, populated by exactly who you'd imagine in a hospital in east London (not the hip part near Shoreditch and Hackney but the scary part out past Plaistow in E13).  My favorite fellow A&E-er was the drunk man with bloody knuckles who alternated between aggressively flirting with the receptionists and aggressively trying to find out where his friend, who has been wounded in a knife fight, was being seen.  The triage nurse was completely blasĂ© about the woman repeatedly vomiting into a basin in the waiting room.  We all ignored the man with tracks of blood running down his right leg who was talking to himself.  It was an uncomfortable place.

However, I cannot properly express how comforting it was to know that while I was in the hospital I would never be asked for insurance, that my lack of private healthcare would not inhibit the service I would receive there, and that the depressing numbers in my savings account would not preclude me from attracting the attention I needed from the staff.

The triage nurse immediately gave me prescription-level painkillers for my head.  The intake nurse took two vials of blood from my arm for testing.  The doctor I eventually saw did a thorough physical exam.  And, six hours after I arrived, I walked out of the hospital feeling almost back to normal and having never once been asked about my insurance status.

I know that there are downsides to socialized medicine, and I'm not such a blind liberal that I think that we should exactly follow the European model of universal healthcare; there are certainly problems with the NHS.  But I do think that the last thing ill or injured people should have to worry about is whether or not they'll be helped as necessary in relation to their ability to pay for their treatment.  And for relieving me of that concern, I have to say a big thank-you to the UK.

(Jon, by the way, was a total rockstar throughout the entire process; he demanded appropriate attention for me when I was too disoriented to do so myself, he stayed calm when I panicked about my body's betrayal, and he took care of me when I was beyond caring what a mess I was.  To Jon, then, an even bigger thank-you.)

Monday, September 19, 2011

Monday Laugh

The High Holy Days are around the corner  - good yontif to you all!  I've just received my tickets to services in the post and am gearing up to eat lots of apples and honey next Thursday (and then, ten days later, to eat nothing at all).

In the spirit of, you know, Jewish camaraderie, I thought that this might be an appropriate time to share one of my favorite new religious jokes.  If you know of others, please tell me - I love adding to my repertoire!

A Baptist, an Anglican, and a Jew are sitting around debating the following question: when does life begin?  The Baptist says, "Life begins at the moment of conception."  The Anglican says, "No, life begins when the fetus is viable outside the womb."  The Jew says, "You're both wrong.  Life begins when the mortgage is paid off and your children have graduated from medical school."

Saturday, September 17, 2011

Accent Vlog

Happy weekend, darling readers!  I hope you're all enjoying a few days of downtime.  This week was a bit hectic at work for me - we had events on Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday nights coinciding with the opening of two new plays - and so, although I love my job and my office and my colleagues, I was very glad to clock out on Friday evening.

I was inspired by Melissa over at Beantown Prepster to make an accent vlog hen I first got back from Berlin.  (Check out Karen's, too!)  I say in the video that I am going to ask Jon to do one as well, but he wasn't really comfortable with that, so you're going to have to settle for just me.  You'll hear the details in the vlog, but in case you're interested in making your own, see the words and questions below.  I'd love to know if you do your own - please do leave a comment so we can get to know you a bit better!


Say:
aunt, route, wash, oil, theatre, iron, salmon, caramel, fire, water, sure, data, ruin, crayon, toilet, Noew Orleans, pecan, both, again, probably, spitting image, Alabama, lawyer, coupon, mayonnaise, syrup, pajamas, caught

Answer:
What is it called when you throw toilet paper on a house?
What is the bug that curls into a ball when you touch it?
What is a bubbly carbonated drink called?
What do you call gym shoes?
What do you say to address a group of people?
What do you call the spider that has an oval body and extremely long legs?
What do you call your grandparents?
What do you call the wheeled contraption in which you carry your groceries at the supermarket?
What do you call it when rain falls as the sun is shining?
What do you use to change the TV channel?

Friday, September 16, 2011

Frock Fridays

Hello, Fashion Week!  Have you spotted Harper Seven making her New York debut?  Are you ready to be snapped as a sample of street style in London?  I haven't, and I'm not.  Who are we kidding?  We all know that Fashion Week isn't my thing.  (Although: hello, Nanette Lepore S/S 2012.  Come to mama.)

Actually, for today's Frock Fridays I really want to share an amazing tumblr page that a friend sent me.  He was perving on the blogger -  yes, darling, you were, stop denying it; methinks the lady doth protest too much, you know - but I'll overlook his skeeviness because now my eyes are opened and I see the magic that is the Girl with Curves.  Tanisha is an absolutely beautiful woman of gloriously ambiguous ethnicity and blindingly dangerous curves.  She keeps a personal style blog where she offers "outfit inspiration and shopping tips for the everyday fashionista."

I'm completely blown away by how Tanisha creates incredible looks that flatter her figure so fantastically.  (I'm not going to go into a whole thing about how every woman is beautiful no matter what her size is because while I truly believe that it is possible to be gorgeous at any weight I do also recognize that health is, at the end of the day, the most important thing, and that can't be determined by what clothes someone is able to wear.  Check out this really interesting photo project for evidence that the appearance of health does not always match up with the definition thereof.  But I digress; forgive me.)  Although I don't have Tanisha's shape, I'm definitely going to learn from her example: she knows what works, and she uses it to devastating effect:


Yowza, lady!

Thursday, September 15, 2011

Berlin, Abruptly

The debacle of the end of my holiday notwithstanding, my few days in Berlin were amazing.  The city is, apparently, famous for its wild and crazy nightlife; I, of course, didn't know this, and my evenings were correspondingly relatively tame.  The days, naturally, were filled with culture and history.

On our first day in Berlin we went to an open-air Turkish market (the Germans have a very complicated history with Turkish immigrants, who make up the largest minority group in that country) where we wandered the stalls and watched some buskers playing folk music until it started to rain on us.


We also visited the Jewish Museum.  The museum's narrative starts almost two thousand years ago, when Jews first settled in what would become Germany, and it traces the stories of German Jews from medieval times all the way through to the present day.  Of course, there is an concentrated focus on World War II and the Holocaust, and the first exhibition you go through traces the horrors that German Jews faced in the mid-20th century.  The architecture of the museum, especially below ground, is really interesting; the most powerful room was the "voided void" which is oddly angular, unheated, and unlit except for a sliver of natural light that falls from a corner of the ceiling.  The room - and indeed the museum itself - is supposedly open to interpretation, which I think makes the experience even more intense.


We spent Wednesday morning in the Pergamon Museum, which is world-famous for its trove of archeological findings.  People who look at art only through their camera lenses really bug me, so I didn't take many pictures, but I did snap one of a simple Egyptian sculpture that I loved:


That afternoon, we stopped by a few vintage clothing stores - I was teased by a gorgeous pair of cowboy boots that I unfortunately couldn't afford - and in the evening we grabbed Italian for dinner and stopped by a smoke-filled bar which was populated mostly by desperately attractive boys in skinny jeans.  (The jury's out on whether it was a gay bar or not - my gaydar is terrible in Europe, where men are generally trendier than they are in the States regardless of their sexual orientation.)


On Thursday I joined a hostel-led 6-hour bike tour of the city.  (The next day: ouch.)  We went all over the place and I learned a ton.  Did you know that 95% of Berlin was bombed during World War II?  In London, you'll find pre-war buildings right up next to modern structures; a bomb would fall on one house but not its neighbor, which means that London, especially in the south and east, is very interesting architecturally.  You do see that a bit in Berlin, but the Allies were very thorough.  One building still standing is the former headquarters of the Nazi airforce - it was used as an arial landmark for bombers, and so they couldn't destroy it because if they did they'd lose their orientation!  Also, I learned why East Berlin is the hip and happening part of town: because the Americans more or less controlled West Berlin, it was rebuilt immediately after the war, whereas East Berlin wasn't really free for experimentation until the wall came down in 1989, which means that it's a lot funkier.



We went to Checkpoint Charlie, which is a total dramatization of the actual thing as it was torn down two decades ago.  There are horror stories about people trying unsuccessfully to flee to West Berlin from East Berlin; the worst I heard was that while attempting escape a 17 year old boy was fatally shot in the dead zone and because he was right in the middle of the two sides neither the Americans nor the Russians would go to help him and he bled out right there on the ground in front of the soldiers.  There are success stories, too, of course; there was one about a young man who helped his East Berliner girlfriend into West Berlin by finding a car that was so small it could fit under the barriers at the checkpoint and they drove right through.  The wall itself, nowadays, is very unimpressive and most of it has been taken by souvenir-hunters, but I took a photos of what's left for posterity's sake.


We biked through Mitte, the central district, and walked through the Brandenburg Gate to the Memorial to the Murdered Jews of Europe (more commonly called the Holocaust Memorial).


Again, the architect of the Holocaust Memorial says that its design is open to interpretation; I like the idea that the slabs are gravestones.  When you walk through the memorial you feel completely isolated, and in the middle there's even a slight shift in temperature and sound, as if you're not where you started in any sense.  It's very powerful.


We also visited the Reichstag - just the outside, as you need to book way in advance if you want to go in for a tour - and another war memorial and museum island.





I was a bit touristed out on Friday, and so spent the day wandering around Prenzlauer Berg, which is sort of the Notting Hill of Berlin.  I was entranced by the gorgeous apartment buildings on quiet tree-lined streets - lovely!


I stayed in Prenzlauer Berg on Friday evening, and I found the opening concert of musikfest berlin 2011, which was in a beautiful church.  I heard Wolfgang Rihm's reqiuem Et Lux; composed in 2009, it was greatly influenced by the work of the 16th century Italian compose Gesualdo.  The octet of singers, accompanied by a sing quintet, was sublime.  We all applauded enthusiastically - and then awarded all concerned a standing ovation when Rihm himself appeared out of the audience and greeted the maestro and the musicians!  It was a truly beautiful evening, and I have to say that I really found a welcome sense of peace in the music, although it may have simply been resignation to the situation in which I found myself.  Regardless, I'm glad I went to that church; it was centering.

I flew back home at the crack of dawn the next morning and - well, I think you're mostly caught up on that now, aren't you?  I might take a day off so that Jon and I can have a long weekend to celebrate our anniversary next month, but other than that my next holiday isn't till Thanksgiving, when we head back to Washington.  If I can find even a few days to be somewhere hot and sunny in the next six months I'll be a very happy woman!

Monday, September 12, 2011

Monday Laugh

For those of you who have been living under a rock - or in America - and don't know, the Rugby World Cup started last week.  England played its first match of the tournament on the morning of the 10th; from the moment we woke up on Saturday it was clear that Jon was struggling to determine how much cuddling I would need before he could ask about turning on the TV.  (I was nice about watching the game in bed.  I wasn't so nice when, in response to a question I asked him, he responded by saying, "Come on, boys!"  Harumph.)

As the World Cup is being hosted by New Zealand, matches start at the crack of dawn GMT.  My friend Adam's facebook status reads, "There are few things that will get me up this early voluntarily."  He's in good company - this is a pretty good indicator of what men all over the UK will be doing for the next six weeks, even though it is technically an advert:


("Swing Low" is, somehow, the national rugby song.  The blindingly fit men in the video are members of the England team and the guy at the end with the remote is their coach.)

Sunday, September 11, 2011

Remembering 9/11

I had second period free on Tuesdays in 10th grade and so, although school had only started a week earlier, I found myself studying in an empty classroom at 8:50am on September 11 2001.  A few minutes after I opened a textbook, my headmistress came into the room, accompanied by a few administrators, and turned on the TV.  We watched in horror as smoke billowed out of a hole in the side of the North Tower of the World Trade Center, and just after 9am saw a second plane hit the South Tower.

Once it was clear that what we had witnessed was no accident, the headmistress called a fire drill.  All the students, aged 8 to 18, gathered on the lawn outside the school beside Washington National Cathedral.  I stood in alphabetical order with my classmates who, completely unaware of what was going on, chattered around me.  An announcement was made to alert everyone of the situation and we were told to head to our homerooms and to stay there until further notice.  We trooped into the school building, confused; however, a third plane had hit the Pentagon while we were outside, and as soon as we got back we learned that the attack was closer that we had thought and panic took over.

My most vivid memory of the rest of the day is of the drivers in the cars around us - because my parents were caught in gridlock trying to get out of downtown DC, an older friend and her sister took me and my sister to their house in the Virginia suburbs - who were all, clearly, listening to the news; their faces were frozen in shock and their knuckles were white from gripping the steering wheels.

Life changed, irrevocably, that day.  We were no longer living in a world where unimaginable atrocities could vaguely happen; we are now, because of that brilliantly sunny day, all too able to imagine further horrors.  As my former schoolmate and Washington Post columnist Alexandra Petri wrote a few days ago, "But if we aren't exactly living under the sword of Damocles, we're certainly watching for Damocles' other shoe to drop."

Of course, this isn't how we want to live.  We yearn life on September 10, for Eden before the serpent.  On 9/11/2001, though, we tasted of the fruit of the tree of knowledge, and we can never go back to that paradise.

However, this "optimistic fatalism," as Alexandra calls it, doesn't have to be a bad thing, I don't think.  We can make good come out of that terrible day ten years ago.  In a way that was impossible on September 10 2001, we can appreciate other religions, we can understand other viewpoints, we can embrace other cultures: we can love our neighbors as ourselves.

On September 11 2001, terrorists tried to sew hate into the heart of America.  The best way to fight back, I think, is to love.  To love actively, to choose to love; to do this is to show those who hate us that they have not and will never win.


We will always remember those who died on 9/11/2011 and in the ten years since as a result of the attacks on the United States of America and we will always honor those who defend us, and to do both these things we will love.

Saturday, September 10, 2011

Returning to Autumn

Well, I'm back in London - I was supposed to go to Lisbon with Christian last Saturday, but, regrettably, I came back home that day instead.  I'm very sad about how the holiday ended, and I wish things had turned out differently, but I think that it wouldn't be appropriate to say anything more here.

So, yes, I've been in town for a week and yet I haven't really blogged - in part because I didn't know what to say about this whole mess and in part because work was so thrilled to have me back early that I've been swamped.

Somehow I feel like I've come back to a town where nothing has changed since I was gone and yet, in some ways, it's a completely different city.  After the coldest August in seventeen years, temperatures in the high teens (that's upper 60s in Fahrenheit) are just what we're used to at this point.  Most London women never packed away their opaque tights when summer started, and coats have been making frequent appearances on the streets for the past few months.  But, at the same time, it is unmistakably autumn.

I would send you a bouquet
of newly sharpened pencils
if I knew your name and address.
-You've Got Mail 

The sun is rising later and setting earlier every day.  I find myself stepping around waves of children on their way to school in the mornings.  Store windows are chock full of long sleeves and wool.  It doesn't seem unreasonable to crave soup for lunch and casseroles for dinner.  My theatre's 2011/2012 programme has opened.  And - the clincher - the annual Thames Festival is this weekend.  I'm unhappy that I didn't really have a proper summer holiday, but it is so lovely to come back to all of this.  New seasons are so restorative, aren't they?

sunrise over the Home Counties, October 2010

I have written a post about my week in Berlin, which I will publish soon, and we do still have two more guest bloggers to enjoy.  I'll sprinkle these amongst the normal posts in the next week or so - I'm very much looking forward to getting back to our normal blogging schedule and to catching up on everything that you've been writing!

Have a wonderful weekend, dear readers, and, especially on this anniversary, please join me in celebrating everything that we live for and that so many have died for.

Monday, September 5, 2011

Further Afield

And another fab guest blogger - please help me welcome Ashley!  She, too, likes to get out of London now and then; turns out that National Rail is a popular option for expats in London.  Note to self: explore the English countryside more!

Hi Betsy Transatlantically readers!  I’m Ashley and I blog over at A Hop, Skip & Jump Over The Pond.  While Betsy is away on vacation holiday I wanted to tell you guys about a great weekend holiday Jon (my Fiance not Betsy’s boyfriend hehe) and I went on a couple weeks ago.

We recently got engaged and 3 of our friends got us a night’s stay at The Grove as an engagement gift.  The hotel was beautiful and the amenities even better. 


The country estate has a spa, hotel, golf course, 3 restaurants, pool, gym, salon and offers a list of activities to do during your stay.  We walked around the estate where they are currently having a Sculpture exhibition with pieces from artists all over the world.




We also enjoyed massages and steams at the Sequoia spa.


If you are looking for a weekend away but don’t want to fly anywhere The Grove is the perfect place.  You can take the overground there and even though you are only 30 minutes away from London you feel like it could be hours away.

Friday, September 2, 2011

Further Afield

Guten tag, dear readers, from Berlin!  As you can see, I haven't been able to blog while on holiday - it's been a bit of a whirlwind, and there hasn't been much downtime.  Happily, though, I have several lovely blog friends who have generously agreed to fill in for me in my absence.  Coming from America, where it takes a five-hour flight just to get to the other side of the country, makes expats appreciate living in the UK, from which other European countries and cities are so accessible.  These ladies have all traveled extensively, so I thought they could give us some good insights into how best to venture out of London!  First up is Beth from In the Left Lane - please join me in giving her a warm welcome.


Many thanks to Betsy for her kind invitation to write a guest post on travel from London!


Before we moved to London in 2009, Tom and I made lists of places we absolutely had to visit during our time in Europe, and I'm pretty sure that our lists included every major European city and those quintessential regions found in most Americans' vocabulary (Provence, Bavaria, etc.).  At the time, we were reading articles on budget airlines, weekends on Mediterranean islands, and hiking in the Alps.  Not that I have anything against Mediterranean islands.




Nor do I have a problem with hiking in the Alps.



But shortly after our arrival in London, we recognized that our lists (largely) overlooked the astounding variety the UK offers.  And it is a fantastic linguistic adventure, learning to understand English in all its glorious British forms.  And the train is infinitely easier than any budget airline.  And driving on the left isn't hard at all once you master roundabouts and accept the general lack of guardrails.


Cornwall was perhaps our most adventurous, most unexpected weekend in the UK, a weekend that inspired a whole lot of wandering up and down the British Isles  After the familiar, gentle landscape of southeastern England, I found Cornwall particularly undomesticated (I mean that in the best way possible) and I think I know why this is home to so much legend and mythology.  The stuff of war dukes and dragons is, after all, written in the craggy coastline and the winding narrow roads that predate the Roman occupation of Britain.  I continually expected some of the more fantastical creatures from the Morte d'Arthur to pop out from behind something like this:



We discovered that this little corner of England is where an Iron Age village can survive a couple millenia as an enclosure for livestock before English Heritage takes over and moves said livestock a whole 10 yards away from the remnants of round houses and such.


Though I don't know why these things surprise us, given our penchant for hunting stone circles, which have survived at least as many centuries surrounded by at least as many sheep.




It's actually kind of crazy that a few hours on a train could take us from London, a place with layer upon dusty layer of history, to Cornwall, a place where the layers of history are more easily identified, more readily available for anyone willing to take a 3-hour ride out of Paddington.